How to say "no" to people ?
My life would be lot easier if instead of using the reluctant two-letter word “ok”, I would be using “NO”. Why is “no” so difficult to say to your loved ones or to complete strangers? I did two very stupid things today just because I can never say no to people and always get emotionally manipulated. And after I am emotionally manipulated I feel like a total and complete fool. I feel that I have betrayed myself because my inner self was screaming no. Which is a lot worst as you can runaway from people but how in the world are you going to runaway from yourself ??Anyway I looked up on the internet on how to say no and found this “ http://www.wikihow.com/Say-No-Respectfully”
Implementation is very important and I guess I will start small !!!
posted by Meera @ 5/03/2008 09:11:00 AM
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:) You should come to UK. People here have a really nice way of saying NO. By the time you understand they have said no the time for you to react is gone! ;)
Actually I can understand what you mean about finding it difficult to say no!
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Azahar hopefully will get to visit UK one day and will see the ppl myself.Its funny how culture differ from place to place eventhough we are human beings and have the same needs.
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